Many people ask the question on the above, ”How to love yourself”. people ignore this topic so much, to such an extent that some feel it is not necessary.
Loving oneself is the root of sharing love to others, the relationship that you have with yourself will reflect on the love relationship you have with others. i agree that it is easier to love others than to love yourself but loving yourself is way more important.
when you deprive yourself of Self-love, that is the moment you invite a lot of disappointment into your life. due to the fact that you rely on others to love you, to make you happy and to make you there main priority.
We need to understand that no one is closer to you than you are to yourself, No one will care for as much as you will yourself. You need to take a step forward and show your worth to yourself.
How to begin loving yourself ?
- Make time for your self – also known as ”ME TIME.” Take care of yourself, give yourself a pedicure, manicure, spa treatment etc.
- Self confidence – You don’t let anyone put you down, stand for what you believe. Stand up straight and tall, let no one rule you.
- Become independent to peoples praises – Don’t live life expecting praises from people, for example you put a lovely red dress and you look stunning. Don’t wait for people to praise you in order for you to know that you look beautiful. wear that dress and own that look, tell yourself that you are beautiful, complete yourself.
- Write a list about what you like about yourself – Know that everyone is unique, and that includes you.
- Tell yourself how much you love yourself each morning – Say ” i love you ……………” ( fill in your name.)
YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT PEOPLE COME AND PEOPLE GO. FRIENDSHIPS ARE TRUE AND SOMETIMES THEY ARE FAKE. WHEN YOU ARE LEFT WITH NO ONE, ONLY YOU CAN PICK YOURSELF UP, SO MAKE A GOOD INVESTMENT ON YOURSELF.